Bill Coffeen
I have received many thoughtful comments from classmates about Bonnie Porth Coffeen passing.
Bonnie and I are very private and there will not be any obituary in the paper, but you knew her in her young life so I will share this with you.
You may remember Bonnie from school. She was a good student, she wasn't in any clubs, but worked in the office as the PBX operator (the phone system), she was a Paper Doll and worked after school at Hialeah Hospital in a school early release program, I can't remember the acronym...
We only lived 4 blocks from each other but I never knew her. I went to Hialeah Elem and Miami Spring ... she went to South Hialeah and Filer ... this is because we were separated by 4th Avenue.
i met her late in our senior year and were engaged that Summer. She went on to be a National Airlines Stewardess ... and I went to College. We got married my Senior year ... and we moved to Long Island NY, my first job.
Bonnie is my Hero ... she believed in me and helped me financially get through my last 2 years of college. She followed me through my career moves and never complained. I dragged her to NY where we had 2 children ... then back to Miami, then to Chattanooga, and Pittsburgh, Hartford, CT, Indianapolis (child #3), Nashville and Mobile.
All of this while I was being recruited and promoted from one place to another ... flying from here to there and gone all week ... working in England for weeks ... South Africa for weeks ... speaking or chairing conferences for a week at a time ... she was selling our house ... buying a house ... packing up ... unloading our stuff ... flying to the new city ... with little children ... and she was somehow getting children through the snow to school by herself. We never lived by family. She never had anyone to help her.
i was Obilvious to this ...
I finally realized this ... and told her many time how I admired her and that she was my hero.
To our classmates, thank you for caring.
Bonnie had Parkinson's. I worked to give her the best quality of life that I could ... I was able to take her out to diner ... traveled to see her children ... She wanted to do things ... she kept trying ... but in the end ... it took her in her sleep.
love you Bonnie
Bill Coffeen
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